Alright y’all, gather ’round because today was all about conquering this Southern staple – Shrimp and Grits appetizers. Always loved ’em in restaurants, figured how hard could it be? Spoiler: needed a couple tries to get it right, but finally nailed it.

The Grocery Run & First Attempt (Spoiler: It Was Meh)
Started simple. Grabbed some quick grits from the pantry shelf, basic shrimp (frozen, yeah, judge me), chicken stock, and some cheddar. Kept seeing fancy recipes calling for stone-ground grits or fancy cheeses – nah, not today. Wanted easy.
Got home, threw some water and stock in a pot, cranked the heat. Poured in the grits like the box said. Big mistake. Instantly saw clumps forming. Stirred like crazy with my whisk, but man, those lumps just held on tight. End result? Grits that tasted fine-ish but had this weird, gritty texture. Not smooth. Felt defeated. Shrimp part was easy enough – peeled ’em, tossed ’em in some garlic powder, paprika, salt, and pepper, fried ’em quick in a hot pan. Came out decent but not great, kinda plain.
Put it together: lumpy grits in a little cup, a couple shrimp plopped on top. Presentation? Sad. Taste? Just okay. Kid took one bite, pushed it away. Ouch. Knew I had to do better for appetizer night.
Round Two: Learning From the Mess
Okay, grits first. That lump situation had to GO. Remembered seeing somewhere about slowly pouring grits into already boiling liquid while whisking hard. Dumped the rest of my quick grits in the trash. Found some old-fashioned grits buried in the back – slightly coarser grind.
- Boiled the liquid mix: Used mostly stock this time, just a splash of water.
- Whisked like my life depended on it: When that stock mix was bubbling hard, slowly poured in the grits, whisking non-stop. Kept that whisk moving constantly.
- Lowered the heat a bunch, kept stirring. Added pats of butter as it cooked.
- Tasted for salt: Added little pinches till it tasted right, not bland.
- Ended with a big handful of sharp cheddar: Stirred it in off the heat. Boom. Smooth, creamy, actually flavorful grits. Totally different from the first pot!
Shrimp time upgrade. Bigger shrimp this round. Made a little spice rub:
- Paprika
- Onion powder
- Garlic powder
- Pinch of cayenne (just a touch!)
- Salt and pepper
Tossed the shrimp in that, made sure they were coated nice. Heated up the pan with oil till it shimmered. Plopped the shrimp in in a single layer – no crowding! Cooked maybe 90 seconds tops per side, just till they turned pink and curled. Didn’t overcook ’em this time. Squeezed a tiny bit of lemon juice over them right as they came out.
Putting It Together & The Victory Dance
Wanted it to look cute for little bites. Used my small appetizer spoons. Spooned the hot, cheesy grits in first, smooth and filling the bottom.

Placed one shrimp carefully on top of the grits in each spoon. Still warm from the pan. Added one little tiny slice of green onion on top of each shrimp. Just for a pop of color and a tiny onion kick.
The final taste? Winner winner. Creamy, cheesy grits with substance – no grit! Shrimp perfectly cooked, that little rub giving it flavor without being spicy. Green onion gave freshness. Kid ate three spoons. Hubby kept “checking” them. That’s the real stamp of approval.
Took practice and fixing my grits mistake (SLOW pour, CONSTANT whisk!), but man, hitting that combo finally? Worth every messy pot and the first batch of lumpy grits. Easy appetizer unlocked, Southern style!